He or she might have to compromise in many aspects with regard to marriage partner and family. ♣ The bride or groom has to go through a lot of no’s or rejections in proposals to find a suitable partner. ♣ The chances of domination and control over the interests of the couple together or individually are existent either by family or the partner itself leading to suppression of the interests. ♣ Sometimes the couple is forced into marriage even though they might not like each other prospects. So they are aware of their future role, career, etc. This also builds an inborn tendency of affection for the family among children and their concern for their future in connection with the family is awakened. ♣ Children born have support not only from parents but also from grandparents, cousins, etc. ♣ During chances of misunderstanding between partners the families provide support and advice for the reconstruction of trust, hope in between the couple, and save marriage relationships. ♣ Couple gets help and support in times of need from both families. ♣ Keeps both partners’ relations intact with their parents, siblings, etc. This is not seen in a love marriage because every family member may not be involved in pairing the two. Enhance bondage between two families wherein mutual support for all the members of the family is enhanced. Maintenance of family culture, religion, traditions, fame, busyness or family work, caste, creed, etc.Ģ. These modes of marriages were not only meant to satisfy the above requirements due to marriage but also aim forġ. This is the oldest and also age-long tradition followed for centuries. Here both families search for a suitable partner for marriage.
These types of marriages are common in Hindu and Muslim communities. Arranged marriage or negotiated marriages Which when exposed after marriage can drastically reduce the trust and love leading to a crush. ♥ Sometimes because of mutual attraction and desire to impress each other before marriage, the couple might have hidden certain personal weak points. So, the chances of poverty and violence during childhood are frequent. This has a tremendous influence on the child’s attitude and growth. ♥ The number of parent-less or single-parent children is more due to divorces. ♥ Fewer chances of familial attachments after marriage, i.e., with parents, brothers, sisters, etc. ♥ The divorce rate is very high in these types of marriages. So chances of dissatisfaction are low after marriage.
♥ Both partners are aware of each other setbacks and strengths. ♥ In many cases, there is excellent compatibility and understanding between the couple if both partners are well matured in thought. There was controversy even as per scriptures. Even Lord Shiva, the Hindu god, was in love for marriage to goddess Parvathi. In most of the western countries and few Christian Asian nations, this is the sole mode of marriage.Īmong Hindus, this is quite a controversy since the past. This is a marriage with little negotiation between both families but with the mutual interest of both the partners.
Because it can torment you mentally for valuable years ahead. So if your marriage is not a successful one, you will have made a terrible mistake. Thus the present scenario shows that both men and women wish to get married for different reasons besides those that existed in the past. The present scenario is that both men and women wish to get married for proper support in his or her’s social existence including career up-growth. So it is a requirement of a man for his social stand on his foot without the parent’s support. They are united by the immortal lord and none should try to separate them.” Both wife and husband live not as two but as a single body. “Marriage is one wherein a guy at his adulthood gets married and starts living a separate life from his parents. Hindu customs say that a woman marries a man indicating it is her requirement for her proper social stand or status.Ĭhristian custom says, as per Saint Jesus Christ.